I don’t know how to respond or react. I tried to send her a message that I like her through one of her friend. But next day her friend told me that she is not interested me, she already had a boyfriend and she will complain to the teacher. This breaks my heart. Now I know that the friend actually didn’t sent the message and just tried to create misunderstanding between us due to jealousy.
Yes, I have a crush on a girl during my neet preparation days. Before starting my story i want to tell you please don’t judge me. I am writing my heart out here.
At last, Please don’t judge me. I have just written my heart here.
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I thought i was misunderstanding something. Why would a rich and topper girl have a crush on me? So I just sent her friend request again. She did not accept my request again but she continue to flirt. At one point i thought i was misinterpreting her signs. And I don’t want to be labelled as creep or harasser. After few days i noticed that every time she tries to come closer to me or talk to me, her friends interfere between us. All this continues and then comes february. It was propose day. As soon as she entered the class she made eye contact with me. That eye contact was pretty long more than 10 seconds without blinking. I cannot move my eyes from her. That day i realised that all this was for me. And I fall in love with her.
After 3 months, a girl joined my batch. Let’s call her X. She was already a student of this coaching. Then it is revealed that she has already been selected in medical. But for better college she was preparing again. She was topper in her school. She studied from one of the prestigious school. After hearing all this about her, I was impressed. But also all this made me to avoid talking to her.
Now the coaching has been closed. But i was not able to bear that heartbreak. I did not want to disturb her till the exams. After the exams were over, I contacted her again on facebook so that we can be just friends. But she blocked me and i still don’t know the reason. Maybe she didn’t recognize my ID. Or may be she just lost the attraction for me because i am below her league. Or may be just because i am a muslim and she is a hindu. I don’t know the reason still.
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I passed my 12th grade from a govt. boys school. So my interaction with girls was almost zero. After passing my 12th, I decided to go for NEET preparation. So, I joined Narayana coaching for preparation. I am not that good in academics, so i joined early to get more time for preparation.
For the next few months she continued flirting with me in different ways. Like laughing at my stupid jokes, passing comments behind my back so that i can hear it and do something. If any boy in class talked to her, she would avoid him so that i don’t feel jealous. She comes to my center for test even if she can give her test at center near to her house. In the middle of the class she kept looking back at me.
In the last month I thought that coaching will be closed so that is why I want to stay in touch with everyone. So i sent friend request to all my classmates including X. When i checked after few days, everyone had accepted my friend request except her. I thought that maybe she might be feeling awkward because we don’t talk. That’s why I cancelled the friend request because I didn’t want any scene to be created during exam time. Next day she comes to me and asks me to sit on the seat next to me. I thought she is making fun of me because i sent her friend request and then cancelled it.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
Today After 15 years, i am in my 30’s. I dated a few girls after her but no girl come closer to her even 50%. My parents are forcing me to marry but i can’t tell them the reason. I just want a closure from her.
